This week I had the opportunity to answer three etiquette questions from my readers.  These questions are certainly important concerns, so I invite you to keep reading.

 

Q:  I am taking a first-time business trip to China, and have a question about business cards.  What is the best way to present my business card?

 

A:  Start by presenting your business card with both hands, holding the logo facing your recipient.  Be careful not to simply hand over the card with your left hand, as some may find it offensive.  When they give you their card, be sure to receive it with both hands, and take the time to study it carefully, showing the respect it deserves.  Also, it’s a good idea to have a bilingual card; one side has your native language, while the other side shows their language.

 
Q:  I know shaking hands is an important part of doing business, my problem is my hands perspire making me apprehensive about shaking hands.

 

A:  You’re not alone.  Many people have this nagging dilemma, but don’t despair.  There is an easy fix.  Simply take a little talcum powder or a spritz of anti-perspirant and apply it to your hands just before the big meeting or event.

 

 

Q:  My 90-year-old aunt took her medication at the table during a large family gathering; it really bothered me that she did that in front of the children.  What do you think?

 

A:  Would it have been better if your Aunt Mary keeled over at the table in front of the children?  She is 90 years old… just be grateful she is a part of the family and give her a little latitude and grace when taking her medicine.

 

I invite you to check out our September Etiquette Events for both adults and children.   Our Business Etiquette session will show you easy ways to politely navigate the business world, and your children will learn fun and easy ways to mind their manners in our Children’s Etiquette Camp.  We’d love to see you there.

 

Oh, and be sure to check out the following opinion article Bob Greene of CNN.  What do you think?  Is Dear Dead?

 

http://www.cnn.com/2012/07/29/opinion/greene-dear-dead/

 

Sincerely yours,

 

Patricia