Reading Body Language: This is What Yours is Telling People…
Think back to the last networking event you attended…
How did you choose the people that you wanted to meet? Whether you realize it or not, you were reading the body language of others.
Subliminally, you watched their movements, posture, and gestures to decide. All of those nonverbal cues helped you make a quick decision about everyone in the room.
People are reading your body language the same way. What are you conveying and relaying with your daily body language?
Why is Body Language Critical?
Even if they don’t mean to, people are reading body language like it’s their job. It’s the most powerful form of nonverbal communication in this life. But why is it so important?
Body language—intentionally or unintentionally—tells people about your stance, your confidence, and your story.
For example, when you stand up straight and keep an open posture (more on this below), you come off to others as confident and friendly.
It’s important to maximize your nonverbal communication and send a positive message to anyone that lays eyes on you. It will benefit you in both your personal and professional life.
Tips for Improving Your Body Language
I want to help you! Here are several actionable steps you can take to convey self-confidence and your respect for others.
- Stand Up Straight
- Don’t lean on anything
- Keep your feet six to eight inches apart, with one foot slightly in front of the other
- Stand three feet away from whomever you’re speaking with
- Make eye contact
- Smile!
- Don’t look over the person’s shoulder or around the room
If you would like to take a deeper dive on these, then be sure to purchase a copy of Everyday Etiquette, where I dedicate several pages to the subject.
Let’s connect for a quick 15-minute call! I can help you capitalize on your nonverbal communication, exude self-confidence, and show respect for others when they start reading body language.
ROB SCHWEITZER: Making A Difference
There are people you meet in life that leave an impression just by being who they are.One such person is my cameraman, Rob Schweitzer. He has taped many Manners Minute segments at many locations across the Tampa Bay area. Somehow, Rob always maintained the same even temperament, good nature, and professional dedication. We had a [...]
Building Professional & Personal Relationships
5 Tips on How to Shine at the Office Have you ever noticed that negativity can be contagious? But a positive attitude is captivating. One will bring you down, while the other is uplifting; both are noticed by co-workers and bosses. Your co-workers will enjoy working and socializing with you if your behavior is upbeat. [...]
10 Tips on Tipping Your Hotel Housekeepers
Should you tip your hotel housekeeper? Absolutely, 100% yes! You want to show your gratitude, respect, and travel savvy. A daily tip should be about the amount you would spend on a trip to Starbucks, $3.00 to $5.00 per day. It is a small gesture that shows you appreciate the men and women that keep [...]
Social Success Tips
5 Tips to Conquering Networking Phobias I am frequently asked by people who find themselves uncomfortable in social networking situations, “What can I do to become more relaxed?” Many people,not just those who consider themselves an introvert or shy, find it difficult to communicate with people they don’t know very well. As a result, they [...]
8 Tips for Eating During a Board Meeting
8 Tips for Eating During a Board Meeting When a board meeting is held over a lunch hour, it is not uncommon for food to be served in the boardroom during the meeting. If business must take place during a meal, be sure to practice you best business dining etiquette. Following are a few tips [...]
National Girlfriends Day
Celebrate National Girlfriends Day The picture to the right are a few of my friends celebrating my Birthday last year. I was thankful for many things that night.... the food ,cake, and gifts . I was most thankful that my friends had the energy to lift their arms & put on deodorant, get a sitter, [...]
Intern Success Secrets
9 Tips to Help the Intern Get Ahead Internships have become a prerequisite for getting an entry-level job, as the importance of gaining relevant work experience prior to getting hired has increased. Completing an internship has become necessary for breaking into a career in many fields. It can be a really fun experience if you [...]
8 Secrets To A Successful Home Office
8 Secrets to a Successful Home Office I don’t think I’ve ever come across a home office worker who isn’t guilty of putting things off. This may partly be due to spending time alone or avoiding certain tasks, whereas in a busy office it’s easier to put it out of your mind and concentrate on [...]
SOCIAL KISS
Etiquette of the Social Kiss When you go to a social engagement do you do the social greeting kiss? When you arrive, do you kiss everybody hello? The decision on whether or not to opt for a social kiss depends on the situation and the relationship between the parties involved. Discussion: The social kiss: MyFoxTAMPABAY.com [...]
Top Three Social Media Etiquette Tips
Top Three Social Media Etiquette Tips Manners matter in both your personal life and matters of business – this includes social media. When using web-based communication such as Facebook, Twitter, and Linked In, keep in mind you want to maintain a polite and professional reputation. Following are three things to focus on when using social [...]
