Football season is here, and proper tailgate etiquette is key
Football is by far the most popular game in America, and more than likely you will attend a pre-game tailgate at the stadium or someone’s home. Just because football is a rough game, does not mean your manners become rough! As with any situation, we want to make others feel comfortable and at ease, and we do that through proper tailgate etiquette. Here are ten tips to help you be the MVP of your game day gathering.
1. Ask what food or drink you can bring
Do not assume all the food and drink will be provided for you. Contact the tailgate host and ask how you can contribute to the event. This helps take the pressure off the host to provide everything. Bring foods that are easy to share with a group and don’t require cutlery.
2. Arrive early
Arrive at the tailgate or home before game time, and assist the host with setting up whatever is needed. Sometimes the most stressful part of a tailgate is chairs, tables, dishes, and cutlery. Again, be a person who joyfully contributes!
3. Do your homework
If you’re not a fan of the teams playing, spend ten minutes to learning more about the game. Who are the key players? Is this a rivalry game? Is a championship opportunity on the line? What are their mascots? A small commitment to research will pay big dividends at the tailgate.
4. Concentrate on conversations, not just the game
In many ways, tailgate etiquette is everyday etiquette. When you’re speaking with someone, be present with him. Turn your body to face the person, and keep your eyes on him. But also realize you’re at a tailgate, and do not attempt to interrupt a person’s viewing because you want to talk. Wait for commercial breaks and halftime, and be respectful.
5. Introduce people and make connections
Another key point of networking etiquette, because tailgates will attract all types of people and opportunities to connect. Tailgates are another way of networking with people, so come prepared! Be the person who sees when a connection might be mutually beneficial, and make the introduction. When people see you have their interests and well being in mind, they will begin thinking of helpful people to introduce you to!
6. Look for the loners
Keep a sharp eye out for people who are on the fringes of the group, and look to make them feel at ease. They may not enjoy football and came with a friend; or are a little shy. Find the common ground that will help him feel at ease around the group.
7. Cheer loudly, but not inappropriately
Football is a game of loud cheers and excited fans, so feel free to yell and celebrate when your team is successful. However, leave the jeering and cursing to others. Inappropriate cheering is rude and an unnecessary part of the experience. You are capable of striking the balance of excited and respectful.
8. Eat and drink responsibly
You don’t want to be remembered as the person who stuffed their face and drank too much at the tailgate, not even making it to the stadium! Wait for others to get their food before you, and drink responsibly. This will make the entire tailgate experience better for everyone, especially you!
9. Help clean
Proper tailgate etiquette dictates you should help with cleanup and break down, and not ditch the hosts to fend for themselves. Take down tents, tables, chairs, cover food, cap drinks, and whatever else is needed. Remember, the hosts want to watch the game too!
10. Send a thank you
The week after the game, write a short thank you note to the hosts. Everyone appreciates a thank you, and it lets the person know his or her work was recognized. If you can’t obtain their address, try email or Facebook. But a hand-written note is the most memorable way to show your gratitude.
I hope this helps you get ready for your next game day gathering. In most situations, tailgate etiquette is still everyday etiquette, and your aim should be to make people comfortable, listen well, and strengthen relationships.
Now if you’ll excuse me, it’s time for kickoff!
