Although we would all like to believe the saying, “You can’t judge a book by it’s cover”, is not totally correct. The truth is that people will make a general assumption about another person within the first few seconds of meeting them. Because of this fact, first impressions are critical in the business world to help build success.
Fortunately first impressions are not entirely based on looks. They are instead a combination of body language, gestures and vibes sent out during the encounter, not matter how brief it may be.
The following are a few ideas on how you can leave a positive impression that lasts –
1~ Always Smile. A warm smile can speak volumes. Smiling puts people at ease and shows them that you are generally happy to meet them.
2~ Be Sure to Stand. In today’s business world, it is proper for both men and women to stand up for a greeting. This small act shows respect for you and the person, or people, that you are meeting.
If you are being introduced to new people at a social function, instead of the office, it is best, as a guest, to make an extra effort to mingle instead of sitting down. Although it may be more comfortable to sit in the corner with your drink and snack plate, it is respectful to the host and other guests to make an effort to meet and talk to others at the gathering.
3~ Be Sure to Use Both Names. When introducing yourself to an individual, or in a group meeting, be sure to state both your first and last name. Using both names sounds more powerful and is greatly influential in people remembering you later.
4~ Don’t Forget The Handshake. A handshake is something that speaks multiple languages and should never be forgotten. In fact, in some cases the handshake is what seals the deal. Practice your handshake beforehand, ensuring that it is neither too weak or overly grippy. The ideal handshake will make everyone feel good and is intended to be a non-aggressive clasp that is slightly firm, where both hands meet at the palm.
Whether you lack self confidence, or are just shy and seeking ways to help make that meeting with the new boss or colleague go smoothly, following these quick ideas can help give you the much needed boost. These tips can help you to finish like a winner, leaving an impression that will last.
